AgingNewsletters May 20, 2023

Don’t Fall for Their Tricks: Protect Yourself from Scams Targeting the Elderly Population

Seniors have always been a favorite target of scammers. These criminals prey on the elderly population, who often have a lifetime of savings and are more likely to be trusting and polite. Unfortunately, scams targeting the elderly are on the rise, and it’s important to know what to look for to protect yourself. In this blog post, we’ll be discussing different types of scams that target the elderly and providing practical tips on how you can avoid them.

Online Banking Security

Online banking is convenient, but it can also be vulnerable to cybercriminals. One of the most important things you can do to protect yourself is to use strong passwords that are difficult to guess. If possible, consider enabling two-factor authentication, which adds an extra layer of security to your account. Additionally, don’t click on links in emails that ask you to enter your bank account information. Your bank will never ask you for sensitive information in an email. Finally, be sure to monitor your account regularly for any suspicious activity.

Identity Protection Measures

Identity theft is a serious crime that can cause long-lasting financial problems. Thankfully, there are ways you can protect yourself. One is to shred any documents that contain sensitive information, such as bank statements, credit card offers, and bills. Also, be careful when giving your personal information over the phone or online. Scammers often pose as legitimate companies in order to obtain your information. Finally, check your credit report regularly to make sure there are no unauthorized accounts or purchases.

Recognizing Fraudulent Phone Calls or Emails Claiming a Family Emergency Requiring Funds Transfer
Sadly, scammers will often pretend to be family members in order to get money from their elderly loved ones. Be wary of any phone call or email from someone claiming to be a family member in distress that requires money. Always confirm the identity of the caller by asking personal questions or calling back on a known phone number. Don’t be rushed into a decision, and never wire funds to someone you don’t know well.

Avoiding Investment Scams

Scammers will often target seniors with investment scams that promise inflated returns or guaranteed profits. If someone promises you a “sure thing,” it’s likely too good to be true. Before investing your money, do your research and verify the legitimacy of the investment. And if you feel uncomfortable or pressured, it’s okay to say no.

The Bottom Line:

Scammers are becoming increasingly sophisticated and can be very convincing. However, you can protect yourself by staying informed and being cautious. Remember to use strong passwords, shred sensitive documents, verify the identity of callers, and do your due diligence before investing. Always trust your instincts, and if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Stay safe, and don’t fall for their tricks!

Aging April 30, 2023

Top places to Retire in Nebraska

As a Midwestern state on the Great Plains, Nebraska has plenty of open space, friendly people, and a low cost of living. It’s also a great state for retirees, with several cities that offer amenities, culture, and activities for seniors. Here are the top places to retire in Nebraska.

1. Omaha:
Omaha is Nebraska’s largest city and the perfect destination for retirees who love culture and entertainment. The city is home to several world-class museums, including the Joslyn Art Museum and the Durham Museum. There are also numerous restaurants, shops, and theaters to explore. Seniors can take advantage of the city’s parks, walking trails, and golf courses, as well as a low cost of living compared to other major cities.

2. Lincoln:
As the state capital and home to the University of Nebraska, Lincoln is a vibrant city with a lot to offer retirees. The city has a lively arts and culture scene, with several museums, theaters, and art galleries. It also boasts a great downtown area with shops, restaurants, and a weekly farmers market. Lincoln is known for its beautiful parks and trails, and it’s easy to get around the city on foot or bike.

3. Kearney:
Kearney is a small town located in the heart of Nebraska, making it an ideal location for retirees who want to enjoy the tranquility of small-town living. Kearney has a low cost of living, friendly residents, and plenty of amenities, including a hospital, library, and several parks. The town is also home to the Great Platte River Road Archway Monument, which traces the history of the Great Plains and the pioneers who settled the area.

4. Bellevue:
Bellevue is a suburb of Omaha that offers a quieter lifestyle with easy access to the city’s amenities. The town has a strong sense of community, with several events and festivals throughout the year. Bellevue is home to several parks and hiking trails, as well as Fontenelle Forest, a 1,400-acre nature preserve. The town also has a low crime rate and is considered one of the safest places to live in Nebraska.

5. Grand Island:
Grand Island is a small city located in central Nebraska that is known for its natural beauty and friendly people. The city has several parks and outdoor spaces, including Stuhr Museum of the Prairie Pioneer, which celebrates the history of the Great Plains. Grand Island also has a low cost of living, making it an affordable place for retirees.

Nebraska offers several great places to retire, from small towns to larger cities, providing plenty of options to suit different lifestyles and preferences. For retirees looking for outdoor adventure, cultural activities, and a low cost of living, Nebraska may be just the right….

 

Yours in Real Estate,

 

Tricia Weathers

Aging March 24, 2023

The changing landscape (not just our bodies..)

 

As we age, it isn’t just out minds focusing on what our legacy is that changes things. Our bodies stop cooperating as well. While life doesn’t have a pause or instafix button we can still do things that we have more time for now like gardening. BUT… what about when we can’t keep up as well and we want to keep the yard nice etc.. Well below are a few tips on adapting your landscape to accomodate for that stubborn body..

1. Cut down on maintenance: Use low-maintenance plants, and avoid those that require a lot of watering, cutting, or pruning. Switch to synthetic grass or other ground covers that don’t need mowing. Install automatic irrigation systems or drip hoses to minimize the amount of time you spend watering.

2. Create easy access: Design your garden so that it’s more accessible to you. Lay a path that is easy to walk on or install stepping stones to make your garden safer and more accessible. Have raised garden beds or planters with a little seating area so that you can sit and garden at a comfortable height.

3. Use ergonomic tools: Make sure you own ergonomic tools that reduce the strain on your body. Tools like lightweight pruning shears or weeding tools with long handles can help ensure you don’t strain your muscles as you work.

4. Lighten up: Use landscape lighting so that your yard is illuminated even after the sun goes down. Motion-activated lighting that’s affordable will help make sure you’re safe whenever you’re walk around outside, and also deter would-be intruders.

5. Create outdoor living spaces: To enjoy your garden, create areas for sitting or entertaining. Set up a comfortable, shaded seating area or install a bench that you can relax on.

6. Hire professionals to help: Finally, don’t hesitate to hire pros to assist you with your landscaping needs. Professional gardeners, landscapers or home health aides can assist with digging, planting and maintaining your garden.

As you age, adapting your yard to your needs is very important so that you can enjoy your outdoor space to the fullest without any stress or strain.

Aging March 3, 2023

What is downsizing? Why should I consider it?

As we get older, many of us realize that the large family home we once loved might not be the best option for us anymore. The idea of downsizing is becoming more and more popular, especially among older adults who want to enjoy their golden years in a more manageable and stress-free environment.

Here are the top reasons why you should consider downsizing your home at wisdom age:

1. Reduced maintenance and upkeep costs.

As we age, maintaining a large home can become exhausting and expensive. Downsizing your home can help reduce maintenance and upkeep costs, giving you more time and money to enjoy your retirement.

2. Simplified living.

When you downsize, you’re forced to declutter and get rid of items you no longer need or use. This can help simplify your life, reduce stress and improve your quality of life. * Bonus tip: This also allows you to really narrow down why things are important and make notes for generations to come.

3. More manageable space.

A smaller home means less space to maintain, making it easier for you to keep it clean and organized. This reduced workload can lead to more free time and less stress.

4. Accessible design.

Downsizing can give you the opportunity to design a home that is more accessible and better-suited to your needs as you age. Features such as low-pile carpet, lever-style door handles and grab bars in bathrooms can make day-to-day living easier and more comfortable. No stairs is, let’s face it, nicer no matter your age.

5. Financial benefits.

Downsizing to a smaller home can provide significant financial benefits, such as reducing your mortgage payments, property taxes, utility bills, and insurance costs.

If you’re considering downsizing, here are some tips to help make the process easier:

1. Start early.

Downsizing can be a daunting task, so it’s important to start early and give yourself plenty of time to prepare.

2. Review your belongings.

Take inventory of your belongings and decide what to keep, donate, sell, or throw away. Consider using a professional estate sale planner or estate liquidator to help you organize your belongings and manage the downsizing process.

3. Choose your new home carefully.

When choosing your new home, consider factors such as location, accessibility, and safety. Make sure your new home accommodates your current and future needs.

4. Seek professional guidance.

Consult with financial advisors, real estate agents, and tax professionals to ensure you’re making a sound financial decision and that you’re taking advantage of any applicable tax benefits. * Bonus Tip: I can sit down with you and make a plan years in advance even so you have a plan when life throws that giant wrench at you.

In short, downsizing your home at wisdom ages can be a wise decision that can improve your quality of life, reduce your stress and lower your expenses. Take time to carefully plan the downsizing process and seek professional guidance to ensure a smooth transition to your new home.

 

-Tricia Weathers,

Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate The Good Life Group

Senior Real Estate Specialist

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What is an aging plan? Why do I need one?

Real Estate and aging..seems like a strange connection to some. Truthfully they go hand in hand. We spend most of our lives in our office, car or home. We arrange our office to suit our needs, we pick a car based on our needs and the same with our home.

As we go through life and spend time on this earth our bodies tend to “age” as society puts it. We become “old” (humph). Regardless how we feel about aging. The truth is our bodies change and we have difference wants, preferences and needs for comfort now. They will continue to change in the future. Making an aging plan, helps address these proactively so you get to age where you want and hopefully how you want. (medically allowing of course) Let’s get to the big questions:

 

What is an aging plan?

Deciding where you want to age.  Do you want to move some where warm? Maybe have two homes and live in the summer where it is cooler, but head to warm weather when winter hits. Do you want to stay in your family home that is where you raised your children? Do you want to move to be around others your same age?

Deciding how you want to age.  This one gets tricky I don’t mean picking your health problems (NONE PLEASE!), but instead do you want make a move and know you never have to move again other than rooms? Do you want to bring all health care to you and never move? Do you want to move as your health needs change.

When. Now this isn’t when you want age. We don’t get to pick how fast time passes by us or even how quickly our bodies deterioate really. We do get to decide if we want make a ove now, or plan on moving when a certain triggering  event happens. Perhaps you want to have an emergency aging plan in place. Everything is modified for you to age in place, but in the event a health emergency happens and you can’t return home- Your wishes are spelled out to preference for facilities and care.

 

So WHY is it important?

The biggest complaint and factor in aging is the LOSS OF CONTROL. Our well meaning kids, our rapidly changed situation do to a medical event, a death of our spouse or loved one. When the unexpected happens, not having a plan can mean you lose your VOICE, your CHOICE in what happens to the way you WANTed to AGE.

 

Why does a real estate agent care?

I watched my grandparents struggle without guidance from their agent or senior community. Each had a goal- sell the house- get a client. Neither was “out to get” my grandparents. It was just neither had training or understanding about the complicated decisions and options that should be open to seniors. Had they created a plan before Alzihemers made decisions for them. They would have known what came next. Instead of a middle of the night frantic transfer.  A rush of decisions and overwhelm hoping it was the right thing.

I want to EMPOWER seniors to know THEIR options and how to get their real estate to work for their aging plan, EVEN if I never sell a thing.  Call it more than work, more than business- IT IS A MISSION TO EMPOWER SENIORS TO KNOW THEIR OPTIONS AND MAKE A PLAN.  I don’t want things left to chance, if they can make informed decisions.

 

Call and schedule your free- face to face consultation today.

 

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Caregiver Tips March 10, 2022

Taking time for you. This post is for caregivers.

The Problem

As caregivers the focus is on our loved one. What do they need? How can they be more comfortable? What needs to be done to keep them safe? What schedule, what medications, do they have a doctors appointment today? The caregivers needs get pushed to the side. “What? No, thank you but I can’t leave to go out and get coffee” Friends try to understand but they don’t always. I watched my mother feel like she couldn’t help her father or her sister when grandmother declined. My aunt simply felt she couldn’t take the time off something might go wrong and no one else would be able to calm her.

The Miracle Cure

The society we live in today seems to have found this MAGICAL cure “SELF-CARE” they call it. They preach it now from the streets, the rooftops, the carpool line, every social media page. Super helpful right… “Why didn’t I think of that” I will just push the “pause button” on life and go do some self care. HECK let’s take 3 weeks in Tahiti with spa days and beaches and fruity drinks.  It just isn’t that simple. So self care has to look different.

Reality How tos:

1. Home Health –Some of us have access to home health who can send someone to sit with our loved one for an hour or more where maybe we can just go sit in the car or go grab that drink with a friend. If you can use it DO IT and try not to feel guilty about it.

2. Scream –If that isn’t an option for you and for many it is not. Don’t be afraid to make sure they are in a safe location for a few minutes and go SCREAM in a pillow let those thoughts and frustrations out they are NORMAL it is ok, it doesn’t make you a bad person to think harsh things in the moment. The care taker life isn’t easy.

3. Delivery, Punching, Attacking?—Maybe you door dash some dinner because you are more than a little bit tired of life. Maybe you scroll social media and watch all the comedic videos and pretend your reality isn’t real. That’s ok too. Order your self flowers, punch your pillow, heck put your mattress on the wall and attack that thing. (Don’t throw your back out ….)

4. CRY–Do what you need to even if it is sitting in the car crying to get your emotions out. I don’t think I have mentioned yet. There is a reason we feel a bit better when we cry. Crying is therapeutic for the body. It can release tensions.

5. Support–Last tip, see if you can find a support group of other caregivers even if it is online, set up a chat room ( I can help- just reach out) grab your favorite beverage and laugh and cry together.

Well that is all for today. I hope it was helpful. If you made it to the end of this rambling and like it, go ahead and subscribe then share it with someone it may help. I will draw a winner from the Subcribers Mid-April and send a gift card to a local business here in Omaha.

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